EXPECTATIONS..

Expecting is one of the nature in human beings.but most of the times,it results in being unhappy.

many days ego,one spiritual guru once said that expecting is not bad but we should not be hurt if it was not met.

it seems difficult to not be affected.To be in safe zone means not to expect but it's too impossible like situation.we have to talk with ourselves in every such situation.the reality is that when we expect something,we lose our independence in being happy.

IT HAPPENS

Our wish matters.but sometimes  may be very often we feel that what is happening is not in our wish list.
people say it as destiny.some say it is God's will.but what should be our approach..if we believe that there is a good unseen force working ,then we have to accept the presence of the negative force that come to stop us from achieving what we want..it needs a lot of courage , and a very powerful positive attitude to face all these obstacles.we may find it from some good books,from a successful person.and from spiritual places also.
like me, some releases tears in a hurting situation,although sometimes it works.
but some interesting ways are there..we  know but don't remember.
if you are out of home ,call your mom..you will find yourself  ENERGETIC..!!!
if at home, spend some intimate moments with your mother. a very easy way  i think..
 2ndly,search for children..go and play with them...
think yourself there are numerous ways within us...

my mother's advice(1)

one evening,i was thinking about my mother.one thing she had said me came to my mind..let me share...
whatever we wish,that happens in reality.it is a very simple line as the biggest truth is the simplest one.i can quote her. " eei mana<heart> baanchhaa kalpataru" meaning the above.i have tested it personally. the thing or situation may seem impossible at the time of wishing,but it is going to happen if you continue to wish only.yes,it may happen in the flow of time.the action will automatically follow.and there is a danger in this easiest way to get what you want.the thing we have to keep in mind is that we are going to wish only positive.if we review ourselves,we can get many negative wishes that conquer our mind and the problem starts.  
so let us be very careful while choosing our thoughts......
 

MAGIC

If we stare a little towards life after taking a pause for a few minutes from the race, we can feel that life has a lot of surprises for us.when we started to count ,it never ends..
from the morning till we go to bed,we are given many blessings by nature..that we have never tried to appreciate or acknowledge
recently i released it. 
i have already started searching the surprises & enjoying..
you too start... and see the result..
its MAGIC..!!!

welcome change

although every moment gives us a chance to get a new experience ,to learn a lot but a very few of us use it.
most of us feels it when we change a place, an environment or meet someone new.
let me share ...
till today i have attended four to five camps whether it be a scouts camp at college or a training camp at training centre.
everywhere i have experienced one thing common.that is a disciplined life style.
for a first few days, it become a little reluctance,but gradually we all start loving the way we live 
 we know every action impose here are for our betterment only.
but why after the end of these useful programmes, we never practise it in our daily life although these small everyday changes can create a big revolution in our personal life....
i have remembered my teacher advising us at college about self imposing disciplines.that is where we are lacking.till when we depend on someone else to tell us, it cannot be consistent.
a matter of regret is that i have met such persons who told me that they can never change,the system can never change.although i completely disagree with them.
change is bound to happen.it may take time.
let us nourish a keen interest in development,personal improvement and also dream for a progressive society.

the way of living

sometimes i ask myself whether i am living or just spending my limited time on earth.
and most often i get an answer in negative.i have done the first thing that the former president dr.Apj abdul kalam has said i.e. dreaming. i have a dream.perhaps the undefendable zeal to  make the dream into reality
is needed.ok
what ever we are doing that should be done whole heartedly and we should know that whatever we are
doing ,we are contributing to the nation economically,socialy &politically also may be directly or indirectly.
the very small thing or deed matters.
if we are participating in a strike,that counts,if we use a product of foreign company, that affects.
if we waste our time by gossiping ,that has impacts.
so before taking the very little step to buy banana ina polythin bag,we have to think.
but come to the reality.WHO THINKS???
always there is a conflict between personal choices,freedom and the welfare of the society.
Ms.menaka gandhi opines that nonvegitarians indirectly help global warming.
smoking effects the atmosphere and the person concerned.
but how many individuals are thinking to force their friends,relatives to change their habits.
one may laugh at these small things.
but i believe small things can be the source of great change.